Motherhood Is Not About Being Perfect

Many new moms feel overwhelmed and disorganized because they try to "do it all."

Before your baby is born, ask yourself the following:

Talk to the people who are close to you about your answers. Make sure they know that you will need their help.

Be realistic - you have even less time now that you have a baby. You don't have to do it all.
Simplify your life - focus on what is most important to you and cut back on unnecessary activities.
Establish a new routine - it takes time to find a regular rhythm for everyday tasks with a new baby, even for experienced moms.
Ask for help - tell loved ones how they can help, and don't be afraid to discuss concerns with your health care provider.
Learn to let go - trying to do too much doesn't leave enough time for what's really important to you.

Learn to value yourself as a mother and remember—motherhood is not about perfection.